Merri’s Tips – Part 9

 50. Remember your manners. It seems when we are tired, worn out or challenged by things in daily life, our manners get forgotten. Recall what you learned in kindergarten about being nice, friendly and personable.
51. Choose those times when manners aren’t needed. Whether you’re being bullied or physically attacked, manners will get you no place. Quite honestly, these are the times when you must show your muscle. Stand up. Speak up. Listen up. Buck up. These times are few, but how we play them will demonstrate what we are made of.
52. Do what it takes to find rest. Our minds and our bodies will be in constant motion if we don’t quiet them. I’m not the one to say how to do so. Each of us inherently knows what it takes for us to be at rest. It’s our job to do it. It’s a commandment. And on the 7th day…
Quieting our mind is part of intrapersonal management. Becoming aware of our emotions  (what we are feeling) and regulating them (determining how we prefer to feel and then focusing on this) are essential for our minds to be quieted.
Gain confidence in this and we gain control over manners, relationships, responsibilities and how we present ourselves.  

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